The Rose, the Ring and the Love Letter

Given 3 weeks ago

I must admit with all honesty that before I meet my boyfriend I don’t fancy much about flowers. I don’t feel any kind of envy to those who receives flower. For me it’s only a waste of money buying expensive roses and after 3 days it will withered.

Because of distance that separates me with my bf, I hardly expect anything from him. His every day calls and gesture towards my family is what matters to me. Last year during my birthday, I wasn’t expecting that I will receive a very memorable bouquet of flowers coming from him. He never failed to surprise me with the help of my friends here in Taiwan. From Qatar he did everything to make me feel special.

Given during my last year birthday

Aside from flower he gave me ring too. It was so “kilig” moment for me. I was totally surprised. From then on, he always send me flower with or without occasions.

Dear Someone,

I've been awake the whole night. I don't know how to manipulate the conflicting emotions that have surged like a storm through my heart all night long. I wish i didn't have to miss you. Even if i am not awake, i'm still missing you. The more i tried not to think of you the more i can see your smile. If only you could be with me all the time, i could never be any happier.
Many years and many miles have kept us apart. I've wanted and been almost too anxious for so long, waited for the love that can complete with the blessing of everyone who are dear to me. Now, i have you! My love will reach any distance and will crossed all the barriers untill we become ONE.

Through trials and tribulations my love will be true and i have faith you will do the same too. I still remembered the moment i spoke up about my insecurities i told you once "I am nothing and i don't have anything that i can be proud of" sabi mo sa akin, "even if you're with someone, you still won't feel complete because you don't love yourself." The things you've done convinced me that above anything else you wanted me to find the strenght/courage with-in me. Through your help look at me Baby I am walking in the right direction. Thank you so much for embracing me for who i am, for showing me the love that i thought was only possible in dreamland. Thank you for being so patient in my shortcomings. I am sorry for being far away but i promise you we will be together soon. By then, we won't miss each other. (as early as this moment, i'm thinking of decorating our own room.... and the rest are all censored. (naughty me! hahaha!)

Thank you for the meaningful conversations and for asking me to be yours. Our desires will continue to stretch across any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Miles are just miles, if we have faith and determination love will find its way. I am so proud of you. You managed to stay the same in spite of the success you are enjoying. Thank you for helping/understanding me in my commitment in doing charity works. I never heard you complain but all praises came from your mouth, for that i found out how you value my passion and how unselfish you are. I love you more and more.

You are more wonderful and lovely in my eyes than you ever were before and my pride and joy and gratitude that you should love me with such a perfect love are beyond all expression.

With all the love,


Relationship is like flowers, very delicate and fragile. We have to nurture and cultivate in order to grow. Storm is part of it and temptation is the most effected test to know if how deep the love for each other. There is no perfect relationship for people fails one way or another but if love is real it will survive against all odds.

► About the Author:
Bhing is an OFW, as Caregiver based in Taiwan. She is the new Editor-in-Chief and regular columnist for TKJ.

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